Friday, January 18, 2008

The Art of Personal Grooming

Your image speaks loudly about who you are and impacts how you feel about yourself as well as how others perceive you. When you look great, you will feel great about yourself and react positively and confidently. In turn, other people will react positively towards you, creating more successful opportunities in business and social relationships. Your personal image is a powerful communicator and gives you the extra edge when it matters. There is nothing more unfortunate than allowing your image to convey the wrong impression, undermine your capabilities and ruin your chances of success.

In today’s highly competitive global business arena, it takes more than academic accomplishment to attain your professional peak. As business become more internationally and socially oriented, the image you project is increasingly important.. Your appearance, attitude and style are as important as your smile. You can successfully manage and influence other people’s perception of you by projecting the right visual and behavioural style. An effective and polished professional image will make the most of your appearance and social skills, increase your self-confidence and self-esteem and help you out class the competition.

Here are some pointers to get you started:

Dress well

This is the first thing people notice about you. Whether you like it or not, your clothes say a lot about you. What you are wearing speaks about your personality, status, professionalism, dress sense and more. Learn which colours and styles work best for you, and strive to look your best at all times. Learn to create your signature style that reflects your unique qualities, personality and lifestyle.

Eye contacts

This is one of the most important aspects of dealing with others, especially people you have just met. Maintaining good eye contact shows respect and interest in what they have to say. If you don’t look at someone when you are talking to them, you might be perceived as aloof, shy or unfamiliar with what you’re talking about. Even worse, the signal you send says that you are neither listening nor interested. Nothing is more detrimental to your credibility and trustworthiness than your inability to make eye contact.

A sincere smile will break barriers and draw people to you like a magnet. A warm and friendly smile is one of your most powerful and winning assets. We all want to do business with people we like. If two people have equal skills and qualifications and only one of them is warm and personable, that person has a better chance of landing the position. Letting your personality show through your smile is a winning strategy.

Firm handshake

This communicates self-confidence. Place your hand palm-to-palm with the other person’s, grasp firmly and shake. A soft, limp handshake indicates you are a spineless person, while the killer crush makes people thick you are overly aggressive.

Body language

Communication can occur without any words being spoken. Your body sends signals, sometimes deliberately, sometimes unconsciously. Picture the following movements: a shrug, rolling of the eyes, a frown, massaging the temples and a big yawn. There is a meaning conveyed in each of those gestures. So be aware of the message your body language is sending and make sure it is positive.

Good posture

The way you sit, stand and walk says a lot about your attitude, professionalism and values. No matter how much money you spend beautifying yourself, a hunched, slouched posture destroys the whole effect. Good posture spells confidence. Learn to project yourself positively and confidently in your visual poise and posture.

* Article by Sally Tang, image consultant and principal trainer at Divine Image International.

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Back to biking!!!

Yamaha Majesty YP250

If I'm not mistaken, it's been 7 months since i last ride my ever reliable scooter. And during that 7 months period, the forgotten scooter looked really jaded without much care and 'touch' from his master. After the birth of my second child, we decided that both our children will be under the care of my parents in-law so my wife will have to commute daily from Seremban to Bangi and as for me, back to biking of course!! So on the 5th of January 2008, after few attempt of 'jump start' i managed to get the bike roaring again. However, i noticed that there was some problem with the battery.Agghhh. I braved myself to ride all the way to Seremban, with few pit stops of course. One was at Bangi where the battery just suddenly turn dead. It was 8 pm at that time. With the help of a guy from the accessory shop, i managed to jump start the bike and continue my journey. Unlucky for me again, the bike stalled again just after the Nilai interchange and for about 30 minutes i waived for help until one kind, young hamba Allah stopped and towed my bike to the Seremban R&R. Again one 'pakcik' and his 2 boys in a MyVi- very kind of them, let me used their battery to jump start the bike. Ya, we still have a caring society out there. Then i continued my journey (with an escort-the young man) and reached home at about 10 pm. My wife was really worried because i left my phone with her that afternoon. Alhamdulillah, i reached home safely.

Harap2 nanti ada modal la nak letak bumbung macam ni

On Tuesday, i took a leave just to 'settle' the bike. I went to the Paroi Police Station (report geran hilang), went to Puspakom after that (road tax expired more than a year), go for full service at a newly found and hopefully trusted workshop. There are still a lot to be done with the bike but as long as i can travel safely for the time being, I'll be happy with that. ......